Generally you are looking to be more romantic these days, and finding a great love poem for her is what you are after. When your honey is important to you there isn't a more touching way to make known your love than one perfect poem. Maybe two. That is where you can entangle yourself in trouble, though. There are oodles poems, a glut, all over. Some are okay, some are just atrocious. Some are stale, maudlin, over the top. Some are chilly and clinical. With all the choices, how are you to determine just the right one? A lot of times you give in and just pick one, which isn't the most ideal course. Here is some straight advice on choosing the best one.
For my whole life I've been enamored with love. My dad was a consummate romantic, his favorite poem was Cyrano de Berjerac, the ill fated romance with "Roxanne". He so loved that poem that he demanded my middle name be Roxanne, and he quoted parts of it almost every night. Despite the name Spencer, I am definitely female, and have turned a great deal of my research and teaching to all things love. I've worked with hundreds of men, women, and couples during the years to have that 'just right' mix, and when it comes to love poems, I'd like to give you a couple of suggestions, here.
Here's the straight scoop:
First, a poem is not a poem is not a poem. This is your beloved you are talking about. A love poem for her, that special person who has your heart, has to be unique to her. And, you. You, both of you, are the two pieces that make the power in your relationship. That perfect poem, or combination of poems, needs to demonstrate what you feel about her. That will slip right into her soul, and she will know you really mean the words. Take a second to jot down special feelings and thoughts you have. What is she like? Traditional? Funky? Who is your woman? Who are you? That will point you to the ideal blend of poems.
Second, Love poems can be shared in unique ways to make them even more powerful. Be innovative. Write it on special paper, roll it up and put a ribbon around it and leave it next to her morning coffee. Have it printed on wild paper and put it on the bathroom mirror. Call her on the phone after she concludes a stressful function at work, and read it to her. Draw her into your arms in bed tonight, and read it to her as you drift to sleep. Even if you don't read out loud all that well, believe me on this one, she will genuinely know beyond a doubt she's adored. It is you we love, not your public speaking skills.
So you see, there is an easy way to make getting that poem, and creating the whole romantic event you want. It just takes a bit of direction from an expert, and some super suggestions, and you are good to go.
For many more tips, tricks, ideas and poems, including a free guide to giving that perfect love poem, head to love poems for her dot net. Spencer Harte says that helping guys "nail it" is part of the fun. She has conducted courses, workshops, created tons of online stuff for all things love. She is a female, a absolute romantic, and a teacher and guide to those needing more love, more romance, and more of life. Check out Love Poems For Her dot Net.
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